The Value of Love

Archives: March 2013

The Value of Love
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The Value of Love

What is more important? To value what you have or to value what you do not have? Think about it for a moment. Gratitude is valuing what you have and ambition is valuing what[...]

Toxic Anger
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Toxic Anger

Recently, I talked about the benefits of being non-spontaneous with your anger. When you do not express anger as a visceral reaction, as a spontaneous emotion, you give yourself a choice and ample room[...]

Do You Compare Yourself?
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Do You Compare Yourself?

If you reflect on the matter patiently, you will discover that most people lead most of their lives in a comparative fashion. There is always some comparison with something or someone else. So much[...]

The Cracked Pot
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The Cracked Pot

Someone wrote to me asking if self-improvement is an endless pursuit. He wrote, “Are we to keep trying forever?” He was alluding to the fact that if we keep working on ourselves forever finding[...]

Bottled Up?
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Bottled Up?

Sometimes shouting in anger can be relieving, it lets you release a lot of clogged up emotions, one fit of rage and a lot of unused stuff gets flushed. But when you shout in[...]